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Winning, Competing and the Code

January 29th, 2019 — Posted in: Tip of the Week

Last week several people wrote us about a story.  Here’s one of the emails:

I recommend you look at the piece on CBS Sunday Morning from this past Sunday about a young high school wrestler.  His opponent was seriously injured in the closing moments of his match.  He chose to remain motionless on the mat when the match was restarted-his opponent could not use one of his arms-all the young man had to do was stand up and he would have won the match…instead he stayed flat on the mat allowing his injured opponent to win.  When it became apparent what was happening the crowd began to applaud-then they stood and applauded-even the referee began to applaud.

After the match the loser (who really won in everyone’s minds) said “It just wouldn’t have been fair to take advantage of his injury-it wasn’t his fault).  That is the true definition of sportsmanship and adherence to “The Code”.

The only reason we compete is to try with all of our effort to win.  However, we like to remind our players that we “win” by

  1. getting to play on a team
  2. working hard and seeing improvement
  3. making the team better by our efforts in practice
  4. getting to be a part of a team and learning to work together
  5. being a support in many ways to our teammates
  6. competing in a way that brings respect and honor to our team

Winning is always the goal in any competition, but regardless of the score we can always win more than the game.

 

 

 

 

Saints, Rams, Calls and the Code

January 22nd, 2019 — Posted in: Tip of the Week

We’ve talked about this before: in sports bad calls are a part of the game. No one likes to see it, but in football, for example, there are many missed calls – holding by linemen, illegal blocks, etc. Still, no one likes to see a missed call cost a team the game, which is what happened in New Orleans on Sunday. In tennis, when there is an obvious missed call, it is not uncommon for the player who benefited to deliberately lose the next point to make things fair. What if the Rams coach had thought, “wow, that should have been a first down for them. I am going to have my players go deliberately off sides, so that the Saints can get a first down.” (twice if necessary, not sure of yardage necessary). Would you do that? Would that be the right thing to do? Or, do we just accept that there are such things as bad bounces and bad calls? What do we mean by “the spirit and the letter” of the rule? Does that matter here?

Jeff, Dave and the Code

January 15th, 2019 — Posted in: Tip of the Week

The Kansas City Chiefs lineman Jeff Allen was stuck in the snow on his way to the playoff game.  Fortunately, in case you haven’t read this story, a homeless man named Dave was ready to help him, and was able to get Jeff out of his trouble and on his way to the game.  Dave had no idea who Jeff was, but Jeff wanted to thank him and so after the game he used social media to find Dave and to invite him to this week’s championship game.  It’s a feel good story – but it also reminds us that we have opportunities all the time to give a helping hand to someone not expecting it.  We should not just feel good about Dave (who’s still homeless), or Jeff for responding, but should instead use this as a model for ourselves.  Here’s a challenge: see if you can find one opportunity to do something unexpected – a random act of kindness – once a day for a week.  The Code says that, “I will give of my time, skills, and money as I am able for the betterment of my community and world.”

The NIAAA and ABW salute 2019 Wooden Cup High School Athlete Recipients

January 10th, 2019 — Posted in: ABW News, Wooden Citizenship Cup

2019 Wooden Cup High School Athlete Recipients
(Left to right) Mike Blackburn (NIAAA), Sarah Rauch, Evan Gwozdz, Brad Catherman, Phil Rison (NIAAA)

ATLANTA (January 1, 2019) – Athletes for a Better World (ABW) and The National Interscholastic Athletic Administrators Association (NIAAA) have formed a partnership to annually recognize one male and one female national NIAAA scholarship winner as automatic recipients of the prestigious Coach Wooden Citizenship Cup. These two high school athletes will join one collegiate and one professional recipient each year as exemplary role models of the ABW Code for Living. The recipients of the high school class of 2018 are Sarah Rauch and Evan Gwozdz who will receive the Coach Wooden Citizenship Cup in the spring of 2019. ABW Executive Director Brad Catherman and NIAAA officials celebrated this achievement with the two recipients at the Opening General Session of the National Athletic Directors Conference conducted on December 15, 2018 in San Antonio, Texas.
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Clemson, Commitment and the Code

January 9th, 2019 — Posted in: Tip of the Week

We were happy to learn that the team that won the college football championship, Clemson, also had the highest graduation rate among the final four schools, with a team graduation rate of 87%. The Code for Living has that name because it has values that apply to all of life. “I will develop my skills to the best of my ability…” applies to the classroom as well as the athletic field. Just as we work on individual skills in sports, so we also have to focus on particular subjects when they need improvement. Recently, we talked about setting goals. These should include academic goals and social goals too. One of the biggest traps athletes fall into is in becoming over-committed. If we are over-committed then we cannot give our best effort. As a part of the new year, what are some of the academic goals you need to set for yourself? Are there some extra things you should drop from your schedule?

Resolutions, Goals and the Code

January 2nd, 2019 — Posted in: Tip of the Week

It’s always fun to try to start the New Year with some resolutions, but we all know most of them are broken very soon after they are made.  Can we do better?  The Code says “I will develop my skills to the best of my ability…” This year we would like to make some suggestions.  First, decide honestly what you would like to work on – and it doesn’t have to be skill development; it can be the way you act, or one aspect of the kind of character you’re developing.  Secondly, decide how much time you can easily spend on it each day; you want to choose a small amount so you can always be successful!  Thirdly, decide how many days you are going to do this; why not try for only one week, or two – you can always re-up!  When you’re ready, tell your plans to a special friend so that they will know and so they can encourage you – and also, because it will help you stay on track.  It’s important that you pick a goal and then steps along the way that will be easy to achieve.  Most people give up on their good intentions because they set their goals too high, and so when they are discouraged; it’s easy to quit.  The longer you can stick with your plan, the more likely it is that you will be successful.  What is something you’d like to work on?

Antarctica, The Will to Win, and the Code

December 20th, 2018 — Posted in: Tip of the Week

While we are thinking holiday thoughts and football playoffs two men are vying to become the first person to walk all the way across Antarctica unassisted in any way.  Colin O’Brady, an American adventure athlete, and Louis Rudd, a captain in the British Army are both attempting this ultimate challenge against the most unforgiving forces of nature.  They are each pulling a 300 pound toboggan with supplies as they trudge their way.  Here is part of a news report:  “After that 4 a.m. wake-up call, with the roaring polar winds rattling his tent, Rudd emerged into another total whiteout.  He plowed ahead for 11 hours covering 18 miles…”

The Code says, “I will give my best effort…”  The will to win, the will to persevere, the will to “give our best effort” is much easier said than done.  There is a difference between making a good, solid, effort and doing our best.  Even when we want to do our best, it is sometimes difficult to summon that effort. How can you think about this?  Can you develop your will, strengthen your will?  Like all things, we think it takes constant effort, it takes a daily commitment to doing our best.  These men are doing what they are doing because they have trained in difficult conditions for a long time.  We have to train and develop our will on a daily basis in order to find that “something extra” when it matters most.  Do you realize that the daily effort you make to develop your skills will also reap the rewards of a more determined will?

Jalen Hurts and the Code

December 10th, 2018 — Posted in: Tip of the Week

In case you missed it, the Jalen Hurts story is one of those things you can’t make up.  The Alabama quarterback was benched last year in the national championship game for poor play, and replaced by a freshman, Tua Tagovailoa, who inspired a great comeback victory against Georgia.  Many thought Jalen would go to another school when it became clear that Tua would be this year’s starter.  Instead, Jalen decided to stay at Alabama, compete for the position, get his degree, accept back-up status if he did not win the starting role, and be a positive member of the team.  Then the roles reversed: in the SEC championship game Tua was injured with Alabama again behind Georgia in the second half.  Now it was Jalen who came off the bench to spark an improbable victory.  How is this like the Code?  What lessons can you learn from this story?

 

 

President Bush and the Code

December 6th, 2018 — Posted in: Tip of the Week

President Bush was remembered for many great reasons this week.  We heard an interview in which  he was asked what his “legacy” would be.  His answer was that this was a question for others to decide, but then he went on to say, “I made some mistakes and we did some good things.”  Notice how he said “I” made some mistakes but “we” did some good things.  That is a reflection of true leadership, of a person who takes responsibility for his or her mistakes, but always gives credit to the team for success.  Coach Wooden said, “It’s amazing how much you can get done when no one cares who gets the credit.” Take a few minutes to reflect on the qualities of President Bush you most admired.  How did his life reflect the Code?

Rival Schools and the Code

November 27th, 2018 — Posted in: Tip of the Week

The Thanksgiving college football games reminded us that most schools have a “bitter rival,” and these games have historically been the final game of the season.  Often the rivalry becomes blown out of proportion – with members of one school vilifying the members of the other school, regarding them as some sub-human form of life.   It is too bad when this happens.  There is nothing more exciting than a game between two opponents with each giving their all to win.  Equally, there is nothing more heartwarming than to see the players from each team embracing the other after a long and hard fought contest.  The privilege of being a part of such a contest is its own reward; the honor of playing with teammates is one of life’s richest treasures; the fact that you are supported by alumni no matter the outcome is as it should be.  Rivalries are wonderful, but the goal should always be to win more than the game.

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